You know, the word ‘disgrace’ is a noun, but also
a verb. Though it is taken to its extreme a noun more than a verb. The noun
could be a state of (shame) or someone, and the verb is the action of the noun
(person). That is the way it is discussed below
In
regards to this, people refer others this way, ‘You are such a disgrace’, when
actually such people been referred to are no disgrace. But this is just to put
them off from happiness. Only few see this coming and push it back to its
origin. On the other hand, you see yourself being belittled by the some soul-killers and heart-breakers who call you disgrace.
If
you understand the opening statement of this writing, you will notice that before
someone call another a disgrace, he or she must have been a disgrace. So you don’t
get lowered for being called names you know nothing about. Just understand that
such people who try to lower your status (whether originally lowered or not),
are themselves lowered. They are the disgrace personified.
All
you have to do is to first see them before they see you. How? By disgracing
them. How can you disgrace them? By responding to them with a great deal of silence.
Don’t talk back at them while you are somewhere making the best out of what you
got.
The
above statements should not just be seen as ‘disgrace’, but also other
soul-killing statements that could sweep anyone off his feet. Many have got
their vision and
plans shattered because
someone (a disgrace) from somewhere (disgrace) disgraced them and they got
automatically disgraced. Why? Don’t ever think any disgrace can just walk up to
you and disgrace you with another disgrace. It could come inform of personal challenges, friends and foes – whosoever.
Don’t get lowered.
You
made a mistake and someone tried to or disgraced you, and you gave in to it? That’s
another mistake you’ve made. If you make any mistake, be sorry, apologize for it, be sincere with your
remorseful realization and pray not to go back to such things; that’s the
payment for mistakes (which are truly mistakes that are not
beyond what the topic suggests).
Bear
it in mind that everyone on earth has made a mistake ever in his or her
lifetime. So don’t get tossed or kicked by some disgraces that would want to
disgrace you. And if you have already been disgraced, retrace your grace and
dismantle the DIS in the GRACE so that you focus on your pace. Remain strong
with your life fixed firm where you stand and never lose hope.
Don’t
forget to be positive minded always…
I
hope this helps.
Thanks
for reading.